Mutual masturbation is a normal activity many men discover in their youth. I personally grew up jerking off with most of my cousins and friends and will never forget my first circle jerk freshman year of high school. Sadly, this primal and natural bonding experience often fades away as insecurities creep in. It is my belief that all men love cock. Yes, even our straight brothers. It’s natural to be attracted to and aroused by your own hard dick and so it stands to reason that other hard cocks will get you aroused as well. That arousal does not denote sexual preference but is rather an acknowledgment of the primal bond all men share by knowing the feeling of a hard cock in his hand. It’s a true connection only men know, and it becomes even more heightened when shared with a bro or in a group.
Looking back at my robust history of bate buds, it’s safe to say that I was often the instigator in many of those scenarios. Since circle jerks were a regular thing for me, I always figured it was a common scenario for others. As an adult, I know many men are yearning for those nostalgic wanks of yore before judgment or shame creeped in about their attraction to dick.
Now that I lead masturbation rituals and dick-centric events for men, I get this question a lot...
“How do you initiate jerking off with a friend?”
So, I decided to share my experience and some tips for you here.
Tip 1) Be respectful.
No one likes to feel pressured into anything, especially a sexual experience that may be new or at least is shuddered in some insecurities and self-doubt. While this may come as an obvious one, it should always be the first consideration. If you notice your bro getting uncomfortable, hit pause and wait to see if he warms up to the idea and let him come to you at his own pace.
Tip 2) Get naked.
Nudity does not have to be sexual, but chances are when you put two naked dudes together something may just pop up. I’m so comfortable with my own body, that I have no problem being the only one hard and stroking in the group if no one else cares. How do you get naked with a friend you’ve never been naked with? Suggest some skinny dipping, or naked sunbathing. Getting naked in nature is incredibly freeing, so why not suggest dropping your pants on a buddy hike. Not a hiker or don’t have a place to swim? Try a naked workout with a bro which is sure to get your juices flowing. Try having a naked push up contest, but you have to touch your dick to the ground at the bottom for each rep to count. At the very least, skip the towel in the gym locker room. It's just unnecessary.
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